You should have a secret life… a secret life of good. If you have read Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men you will remember the Latin word integras, from which we get our English word “integrity.” A soldier with integras would clink his armor with his sword. The commander would hear that nothing was loose; everything was correctly positioned. The soldier had integras. Integrity is wholeness, solidness, connectedness. Do good and noble things for others in secret, without telling anyone else, and you will come even closer to experiencing true integrity.