Whatever kind of man your father was (or wasn’t), it’s important that you are rightly aligned with him. In fact, it’s one of the great arts of noble manhood. Seek out help from God and other men as you do this. To get started, Stephen strongly encourages watching this performance of the song “Fall on Me” by Andrea Bocelli with his son Matteo. Get in a quiet place, and let this song bring up your relationship with your father. Write down what you felt. Discuss it with your band of brothers. If your father is still living, give him a call. If he’s deceased, write a letter of what you would say. Get your heart straightened out toward the good, bad and ugly. This is critical for your own walk as a GreatMan.